I remember the first time someone asked me about the remuneration that came with being a blogger.
My friend was holding a 3rd birthday party for her daughter and while we get along extremely well, it’s not one of those friendships where I have met, or even know any of her other friends or family members.
So, when breaking the ice in first meeting the parents, the default conversation naturally turned to occupation and professions.
It’s a pity we’re so socially stagnant these days that a self introduction inevitably ends up justifying our existence with “what we do for a living” rather than “what we live for” or even simply talk about “what we love”
Anyway, explaining to another mum that I was a blogger, immediately piqued her curiosity.
“Apologies if this is a personal question…(If you’re really sorry about it, why the hell are you continuing to ask me?)…but do you make a lot of money out of blogging?”
Ho hum.
Talk about spectacular fall from social graces.
She sensed my uncomfortable stance but having already begun digging that hole, why not get the big shovel out as well?
“I mean, you see it on TV about all these mummy bloggers being millionaires and just wondered if that was true…”
I really could’ve had fun with this one, making up all sorts of glamorous stories how I have lucrative brand ambassadorship deals while a gazillion loyal readers follow my every breath and smart, witty comments.
Alas, I’m just too bloody honest.
“Nah. I make next to nothing, “ I shrugged.
Then, as I went on to my usual spiel about how much I just love writing and connecting with lovely people, the sparkle in her eye disappeared, along with her interest.
It’s intriguing how people are so keen to find out how to make “big bucks” from something as “fluffy” as blogging. It’s not valid unless it has a price tag.
Over this past year, more sponsored and brand endorsed posts have appeared on this blog. It’s important to point out however, that none of this has been done without careful planning or being consciously aware of what would be considered “too much”
The thing is, working with brands brings opportunities beyond what’s monetary; it’s a chance to sharpen business skills while still working towards what you love.
As far as expanding writing skills and a freelance portfolio, sponsored posts can also provide that.
But at the end of the day, the biggest focus here is on you guys, all the lovely readers.
The support, comments and participation – none of thatever goes unnoticed.
Two and a half years later and there’s still that Friday morning thrill in seeing who’s linked up for FYBF. Everyone’s coming over for (virtual) morning tea at my place and none of you seem to care about the mess! Awesome!
So, thank you for helping me create this sense of warmth and cosiness over at yea ol’ blog. This place would be barren and worthless without you.
Joining Essentially Jess for IBOT
How true Grace!!! Blogging really is like a lovely little catch up with your friends isn’t it. One of my fave things about blogging is having met some incredible people. xxx
Haha! I can relate to this Miss Grace! My father can not BELIEVE I don’t care that I don’t make money from my blog. He’s always making suggestions on what I should do. I just shake my head. I love all you beautiful girls I’ve met through blogging. That’s what makes it worthwhile x
Oh. Em. Gee. I was laughing through this because it is SO TRUE. Mummy blogger = instant millionaire. LOLOLOLOL! I tell you what, it’s the hardest way to make money I’ve ever experienced. I’ve made $150 in two years. So glamorous, LOL!
WOOT WOOT check out your new BLOG DESIGN – it’s fabulous girl! Great post BTW and I agree 1000% – no such thing but you know me, I love to make shit up! xxx
Thanks for having me for tea and bikkies on a Friday xx It just a big bloggy hugfest 🙂
That last quote of the day from Darren was my highlight of the event! Great post Grace. xx
I love popping in on Fridays and you are one of those rare friends who doesn’t care how many kids I have with me 🙂 Thanks Grace
New blog looks fab. Love this post its gorgeous. Great photo of you also ! Keep blogging Mamma and be proud
Oooh I love the new design Grace, its so fresh! You are so true about people who only care about what you do for a living (or don’t do), and never seem to ask what you are passionate about. I have a friend who is always “busy” (so doesn’t have much time for me) and always asks me when I will be returning to work, if only she knew I love being a full-time Mum, and that’s my job 🙂
Ah yes, there’s been a bit of stuff online lately about this. I have to admit (like some) I’m a bit over the extreme focus on making money from blogging. I don’t care that people do but I struggle with some newcomers who enter the game and are all about the money and stats an so forth. I know I should be more zen about it, but it makes me want to be less-focussed on the $ etc.
Deb
I’ve never been asked if I make money from blogging, now that I think about it. Though one couple did think I was like that mum from Packed to the Rafters and got a good giggle out of it. I suppose if that works for you…. 🙂
I do get frustrated by the push to be ‘big’ and make it a financial thing. I just want to write and enjoy the people who read it.
Awesome post Grace, I totally agree. I find that a lot of non-bloggers just don’t get it. I get asked why I bother all the time:-) I love love love your new design (and I love having morning tea with all you ladies every Friday) xxx