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March 6, 2015 By: mamagrace7139 Comments

First to freely admit that I was far from being a Star Trek fan, the news of Leonard Nimoy still came as a shock and met with sadness.

He was just one of those celebrities who was “always around”, you know?

Maybe the portrayal of a half Vulcan and half human sci fi character immortalized him.

Then Sheldon and pals helped raise Mr Nimoy’s profile all over again.

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Even I secretly want a Star Trek Transporter toy…

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It’s never too late to become a fan.

So immersed would Nimoy be in his character as the calm, rational, emotion suppressing Dr Spock, it would take him an entire weekend to recalibrate back to “himself”.

He would then head back to the studio the following Monday morning to shoot the next episode and start the cycle of Vulcan/human behaviour all over again.

The continuing battle to make decisions based on pure logic and simultaneously figuring out how to register and manage human emotions.

I’ve been trying to radio silence myself from social media this week.

It’s the exposure to vitriol and heartless opinions that I want to avoid.

People just seem to love busting on others’ belief systems.

Maybe we’re all trying to prove there’s a bit of Vulcan in us – seeing “what makes sense”, clinically but coldly.

Claim that a situation is “black and white”.

“It is what it is”

But when has that EVER been the case?

Every aspect of my life – the good, the bad, the devastating – all of it has surfaced in various Pantone shades of plot twisted emotion.

All of it though has its rightful place. A precious place.

Even in his last Tweet, Spock knew it too.

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Just as we can’t take our own lives for granted, what about giving others the chance to do the same?

#istandformercy

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  1. Lydia C. Lee says

    March 6, 2015 at 6:28 am

    I like the life is like a garden post…to be enjoyed, worked on, tended to, and treasured….lovely.
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  2. Nikki@WonderfullyWomen says

    March 6, 2015 at 6:37 am

    Life is like a garden, without nurturing we can not thrive! and I used to love Startrek. x N
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  3. Renee at Mummy, Wife, Me says

    March 6, 2015 at 6:43 am

    I can’t bring myself to watch or read the news at the moment. It is a sad time indeed #istandformercy
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  4. Lauren @ The Thud says

    March 6, 2015 at 6:54 am

    I’ve never watched Star Trek, but Nimoy sounds like a pretty wise bloke. I’ve struggled this week too. So much nastiness and sadness around. Sometimes it’s better to just take a break from it all and unplug xxx #istandformercy
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  5. Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:06 am

    This is beautiful, Grace and I love that quote. Life is just like a garden and it is a rare and precious gift. I believe that people can change and I too stand for mercy.
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  6. Kathy says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:11 am

    Love this post even though I’m not a trekkie. It is a very yin-yang message – we can’t have rational thinking without emotion, and we can’t expect to live our lives the way we want to, in our own garden, unless we let others grow in theirs. Love the pantone shades of life, nothing is black and white. And #istandformercy too.
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    • Martine@themodernparent says

      March 6, 2015 at 7:25 am

      Well said Kathy and Grace I think this ‘many shades of grey’ world coupled with so many personal circumstances can make the online world so difficult at times. In often only a few words people try to get their views heard and some in a not so rational way! Tis good to sometimes take a break xx
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  7. Malinda @mybrownpaperpackages says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:16 am

    Sometimes just switching it all off to get some peace and quiet is what is needed. I love your expression – all the pantone shades.
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  8. robo says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:25 am

    Life is like a garden. Beautiful.
    Opinions have been rife lately. People seem content with ending these young lives because of a mistake a decade ago, the laws of that country blah blah. What if an Australian woman broke the laws of a middle eastern country by kissing a boy? Would that be an acceptable reason to kill her? That excuse doesn’t hold up with me. It is not fair. They should send them home to serve out their sentences.
    I’m with you, G. X
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  9. Desire Empire says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:26 am

    I was never a fan either, but when the icons of our generation pass away it means alot.
    Carolyn
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  10. Amy @ HandbagMafia says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:33 am

    It was very sad to hear the news about Leonard Nimoy- I follow George Takei on fb and read lots of nice tributes.

    I find many people defend their ideas with “Well, it’s MY OPINION and I have a RIGHT to an opinion!” and quite often, that’s the only defense they have for clinging to outdated or offensive notions that should have been well and truly abandoned by now. It’s always a good idea to unplug from that!
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  11. Pinky Poinker says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:52 am

    I stand for mercy. I feel sick thinking about what is going on. It’s a horrible feeling to be so helpless and I can only imagine how the families feel. I love the garden analogy Grace. Very apt x
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  12. Lisa@RandomActsOfZen says

    March 6, 2015 at 8:14 am

    I can’t say I was ever a huge Star Trek fan, but really loved seeing Leonard on BBT. To me, he always seemed like such a gentle person.
    And I really can’t help but think that mercy has been pushed aside in a display of power. So terribly sad for those families, I can’t even imagine their prolonged grief.
    The WWW has been a sad place this week, Grace xx
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  13. Fleur - our urban box says

    March 6, 2015 at 8:27 am

    What a sad and crappy week it has been. I am so saddened for these two men and their families they are leaving behind. I think I will be switching off over the next couple of days. I am avoiding the news at all costs at the moment.

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  14. Min@WriteoftheMiddle says

    March 6, 2015 at 8:30 am

    I was very sad to hear of the passing of Leonard. That last tweet of his is a beautiful quote. #Istandformercy too Grace I am sick to the stomach with the latest movements in Bali. I cannot bare to watch the news. It is wrong. So wrong. With regards to the hatred and online bullying that is so vile and damaging, I fully support the new movement by Alli & Co #banishthebully xoxo
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  15. Bec @ The Plumbette says

    March 6, 2015 at 8:30 am

    I got into Star Trek when they made the recent movies because Jacob was into them and I really enjoyed them!! As for this week, it’s not a great week at all but when we have weeks like this I never stop praying for a miracle. I hope you’ve coped well with your new job Grace. xx
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  16. Lucy @ Bake Play Smile says

    March 6, 2015 at 8:38 am

    A lovely quote in an often confusing and sad world. xx
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  17. Denise says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:03 am

    Love the quote. I really loved Dr Spock as a kid too, he was the best. The news is very tough right now and hard to stomach. #Istandformercy xx
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  18. Erika @ Ever-changing Life of a Mum says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:26 am

    I’m not a Star Trek fan either, but that garden quote is beautiful. If only there could be more perfect moments.
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  19. Lauren @ Create Bake Make says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:34 am

    Perfect quote Grace, just what I need to remember after a long and crappy week xx
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  20. Raych aka Mystery Case says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:38 am

    Great quote Grace! I’ve been having a lot of time out this last week and avoiding the news as far as possible.
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  21. Robyn (Mrs D) says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:52 am

    I need to do that too Grace. The news and social media surrounding it at the moment is not good at all. :((
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  22. Ai Sakura says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:52 am

    his last tweet is so poignant. sometimes I wonder what kind of legacy I’ll leave behind and hope I shall not live my life in vain.
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  23. sarah@tomfo says

    March 6, 2015 at 10:00 am

    Although I wasn’t a huge Star Trek Fan, I can appreciate his genius. I stand for mercy too x
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  24. Damo @ Forever Falling Short says

    March 6, 2015 at 11:02 am

    Live long and prosper Grace! Thanks for the party.

    Damo
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  25. natalie @ Our Parallel Connection says

    March 6, 2015 at 11:03 am

    Wonderful post Grace. Life can be like Melbourne’s weather, it can change many times a day/week. My family can be like that, one is up while another is down. Sometimes we are all on the same wavelength or emotional state and when this happens, I make the most of it.
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  26. Kaz @ Melting Moments says

    March 6, 2015 at 11:13 am

    Such a beautiful and touching quote. Leonard Nimoy will be sadly missed.
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  27. Jess - A Little Part of the World says

    March 6, 2015 at 12:35 pm

    What a great quote. He will be missed. Jx
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  28. Kylie Purtell - A Study in Contradictions says

    March 6, 2015 at 1:27 pm

    I’m not a huge Star Trek fan, but I do enjoy watching and have done ever since I was a teenager. I was very sad to see he had passed away, but he and his character will never be forgotten.
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  29. Julie @ Off to the park says

    March 6, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    I was never a big Star Trek fan, but I was sad to hear he had passed away. For us who had grown up in the 80s, he will always be remembered as Spock 🙂
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  30. Denyse Whelan says

    March 6, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    I appreciate your sentiments here Grace. Thank you for making it easy for people to see how life is right now…. for many including me, not a rosy place. Denyse x
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  31. Ingrid @ Fabulous and Fun Life says

    March 6, 2015 at 4:07 pm

    What a poignant last Tweet!
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  32. Emily @ Have A Laugh On Me says

    March 6, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    I got goosebumps when I heard he had died, a sad day indeed. I’m outraged that the execution appears to be going ahead yet the Bali bombers were released? It’s a corrupt system. Have a great weekend Grace x
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  33. Lara @ This Charming Mum says

    March 6, 2015 at 7:17 pm

    What a beautiful way to link some of the week’s biggest stories Grace. Live long and prosper indeed. x
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  34. Vicki @ Knocked Up and Abroad says

    March 6, 2015 at 9:37 pm

    I’m feeling unsettled with the whole Bali 9 biz so I’m considering a little media ban myself. It’s just too easy to absorb all the sadness and turmoil swirling around the world right now. What a great last tweet from a great man x
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  35. Mandy Barbie Bieber Beyond says

    March 7, 2015 at 12:47 pm

    The news is so depressing at the moment…. one thing that always makes me feel better is “Big Bang”. Lets cross our fingers and hope that sanity prevails…
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Indonesian-born, Grace spent extensive time living and working overseas, primarily in Japan. She now resides in Sydney where she is mum to identical twin boys and wife to an avid surfer. While she has happily replaced office life with motherhood, Grace has discovered that a 10 year career in corporate sales and being fluent in 3 languages is futile when dealing with toddler tantrums and singing “The Wheels On The Bus”

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